How to Choose the Perfect Crystal Gift (Even If You Know Nothing About Crystals)
By Funky Posh Gems & Jewellery
Choosing a crystal gift can feel overwhelming — especially if you’re not sure where to begin. With so many shapes, colours and meanings, it’s easy to think you need tons of knowledge to pick the “right” one.
But here’s the truth:
You don’t need to be a crystal expert to give a meaningful crystal gift.
You only need a little guidance and a sense of the person you’re buying for.
At Funky Posh Gems & Jewellery, we help people choose crystal gifts every day — from parents shopping for their children to friends buying for someone who “has everything.”
Here’s a simple, beginner-friendly guide to help you pick the perfect crystal, even if you're brand new to the world of gemstones.
1. Think About the Person’s Energy, Not the Crystal’s Name
Instead of trying to memorise every meaning, ask yourself:
Are they stressed?
Are they confident or shy?
Do they love bright colours or calming tones?
Are they going through a big change?
Do they prefer bold or delicate jewellery?
This makes choosing much easier. Once you know the type of support someone might need, matching them to a crystal becomes simple.
2. Use Colour as Your Guide
A secret tip: crystal colours often hint at their energy.
You can choose a crystal just by colour and still get it right.
Pink → Love, comfort, kindness (e.g., Rose Quartz)
Purple → Calm, intuition, sleep (e.g., Amethyst)
Yellow/Orange → Happiness, confidence, motivation (e.g., Citrine, Sunstone)
Green → Balance, healing, growth (e.g., Aventurine, Malachite)
Black → Protection, grounding, strength (e.g., Onyx, Obsidian)
Blue → Communication, peace, clarity (e.g., Lapis, Blue Lace Agate)
If someone loves a colour, chances are they'll love the crystal too.
3. Choose a Shape That Matches Their Personality
Different shapes make the gift more personal:
Tumbles – Great for beginners and children
Bracelets – Easy everyday wear, perfect for fashionable friends
Pendants – Thoughtful, symbolic, especially when handmade
Towers – Perfect for home décor lovers
Spheres – Calming and beautiful on a desk or shelf
Palm stones – Great for stress relief and mindfulness
If you're stuck, jewellery is always a safe option — it’s meaningful, wearable and lasts forever.
4. Match the Crystal to Their Life Situation
When in doubt, think about what they’re experiencing:
Stress or anxiety? → Amethyst, Lepidolite
Love or heartbreak? → Rose Quartz
Starting a business or new job? → Citrine, Pyrite
Protection or grounding needed? → Onyx, Black Tourmaline
Creativity or change? → Labradorite
Confidence boost? → Tiger’s Eye
These associations are simple to remember and incredibly helpful for gift-giving.
5. When All Else Fails… Trust Your Instinct
This is the most important tip.
Crystals speak through visual attraction — the one you keep coming back to is usually the right one.
If a stone catches your eye or gives you a good feeling, it will most likely resonate with the person you’re gifting it to.
At our events and fairs, customers often say:
“I don’t know why, but this one just feels right.”
And it most often turns out to be the perfect match.
6. Or Ask for Help — We Make It Easy
At Funky Posh Gems & Jewellery, helping customers choose the perfect crystal is one of our favourite things.
Tell us who it’s for, their personality, or the occasion, and we’ll guide you to a piece that carries the right energy and looks beautiful.
Whether it’s:
a child’s first crystal,
a meaningful piece of handmade jewellery,
a stocking filler,
or a special gift for someone who’s impossible to buy for…
We’ll help you find something personal, thoughtful and full of meaning.
Final Thought
You don’t need crystal knowledge — you just need intention.
A crystal gift is powerful because it carries your thoughtfulness, your attention, and your wish for the recipient’s wellbeing.
And that is what makes it truly special.